The Secret to Get Your Ex To Return Your Calls

Todays Secret Is...

Okay, so you're having a little problem getting
that certain someone to return your emails or
phone calls or text messages and it's driving you crazy!

Don't you wish that there were some sort of 'magic'
that, if you spoke them, would have your ex actually return your calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

How sweet is that?...


And you're not alone! I have over 35,000 subscribers
and this topic is always at the top from the
folks that just want to put their lives and
relationships back together.

Today, you and I are going to share a little 'secret'.

Today, I'm going to share with you the 'secret' answer
to..."They just won't return my whatever (email, phone call,etc.)"


BUT...

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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.

Magic of Making Up

Now, you need to be very careful using this one
technique because you don't want to ruin any
chances of rebuilding the relationship. And if
you don't have a 'complete' strategy in place
they may NEVER return your phone call.


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What NOT to Say!
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Now, before we sail into the actual words to
use, let's review the type of message that will
NEVER work and almost always puts you in
a TERRIBLE 'psychological' frame of mind.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly...

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

Magic of Making Up

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==> Magic of Making Up

Rooting For You,
RJ